Hmm, ok. Well, it sounds like the UD3R is the best choice for your use. If the UD3P isn't what you're looking for, then don't worry about its price. You could wait a couple weeks to see if any decent sales happen on the UD3R (maybe Black Friday?), and if nothing comes up, just go ahead and get it. But don't buy a different motherboard just because it's $5 or $10 cheaper if it isn't going to suit your needs properly, IMO.
But yes, you could look for PCI-E x1 cards instead of PCI cards, if you feel you might make use of the 2nd PCI-E x16 slot. But if you're not going to use it, don't bother with that motherboard then.